Sororities have always had the reputation of being a pay-to-play friendship club. And honestly, while there is a financial commitment, that perspective doesn’t fully capture what being in a sorority is about—especially at Colorado Mesa University (CMU). CMU’s sorority life is small, and it’s nothing like the movies.
There’s no hazing, no wild parties and the community is much more close-knit. While there is drama (as with any group), it’s often resolved quickly, and the friendships built in Greek life are strong.
Joining a sorority does come with costs: dues, events and matching outfits add up but it’s much more affordable than at larger schools where the price tag can be in the thousands per semester. Even so, balancing a job, school and a sorority isn’t always easy. I work hard to pay my dues, and at times, it’s stressful – but it’s worth it.
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My sorority has given me friendships and support that I wouldn’t trade for anything. Still, I wish Greek life was even more financially accessible so that more people could experience what I have without worrying about the cost.
Recruitment at CMU, while not as intense as at bigger universities, can still feel judgmental. It’s a process where potential new members are trying to find where they fit, and chapters are looking for members who align with their values. While this can feel intimidating, people usually end up where they belong.
One of the biggest differences between CMU and larger schools is the social atmosphere. There isn’t the overwhelming pressure to party or maintain a certain image. Instead, Greek life here is about building connections and supporting philanthropy, like Girls on the Run and Special Olympics.
We also donate baskets of food and clothes to the homeless and animal shelters, help walk dogs at local shelters, assist with Mav Rides and foster leadership. The balance between social events and community service feels much healthier than the stereotypical Greek experience seen in movies.
That being said, there’s always room for growth. Greek life at CMU is already more inclusive and welcoming than at many other schools, but we can continue working toward making it even more accessible both financially and socially. Sororities should be about sisterhood, leadership and support.
CMU does a good job of fostering that environment. My experience hasn’t been perfect, but it’s been meaningful, and I hope more students feel encouraged to join without fear of financial or social barriers. Sisterhood can be powerful, but the way sororities operate needs to be more accessible and welcoming to more people.
